Wilfried P. Schmitz & Associates, P.C.
Practicing Family Law in Harris, Galveston, Fort Bend,
Brazoria and Liberty counties in Texas since 1984

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What should you do after deciding to divorce?

On Behalf of | Dec 24, 2019 | Firm News

Ending a marriage is not a decision to make lightly. You have undoubtedly given the idea a lot of thought as problems in your marital relationship persisted, and you may feel that it is becoming the most viable option for regaining a sense of fulfillment and happiness in your life. Of course, like most Texas residents who have never faced this ordeal before, you may not even know where to start when it comes to divorce.

If you have already decided that ending your marriage is the best option and have given it the proper thought, you have already started the divorce process. This decision is the first step in moving forward with this significant life change. What do you do next?

Consider your options

Even if you and your spouse no longer feel happy in your relationship, it may not mean that you are at each other’s throats constantly. You may still be able to discuss matters in a civil manner and see each other’s side of the situation. If so, you will likely be able to take a collaborative approach to your case. Rather than spending months or even years in the courtroom litigating your divorce, you may be able to collaborate and reach an agreement more quickly and amicably.

In the event that working together is not an option, courtroom litigation is a common method for divorce. It can take more time and cost more money, but if no alternative works for reaching a settlement, this option may prove necessary.

Prepare to wait

Even if you choose an amicable approach to your divorce, it can still take a considerable amount of time to complete. You need to take the time to gather needed information, file the proper paperwork and wait for the court to process that paperwork. If you anticipate the process taking longer than you would like, you can hopefully save yourself from frustration on that part.

Find the right support

When it comes to effectively handling your divorce, you will certainly want to have the right legal support. If you have never gone through this process before, you likely do not know what to expect or fully understand your options yet. Your legal counsel can help you go over your specific circumstances, help you find the right dissolution method and assist you in working toward the outcomes you find most agreeable.